For me, it's kind of like being a Kent Parson fan. I don't want fic where Jack realizes he was 100% in the wrong and comes after Kent confessing his guilt; it's unhealthy and realistic. And I don't want Nurseydex where one of them is declared The Winner Of All Arguments and gets to just keep doing what he's doing without any change. In both cases, I want stories about that transformative thing that happens when you go, "I have legitimate grievances--AND YET--maybe I could handle them better."